You (and your predominantly female family) are getting off your car, when you notice a bearded-kurta-&-topee man constantly stare at you (and your family). He seems to move around so that he can get a better ‘view’. Do you:
(More than one option may be chosen)
- Get back into the car and drive off
- Curse your failure to wear Niqab
- Glare at him (AKA the stiff look)
- Audibly announce: "Believing men should lower their gaze"
- Take your scarf and pull it over your face
- Mumble and grumble under your breath
- Other (please specify)
10 comments:
I would smile, sit in my car like the lady I am and drive off and praise Allah for my patience in dealing with the annoyances of this world:)
*hugs*
I would love to march over to him and remind him to lower his gaze and not stare but then again it may be unsafe to do that so instead I would advise all the women to turn their backs to him so he cannot see us and drive off. This is why its good to have a mahram with you... id have him approach the brother and talk some sense into him )
I would probably ignore him and go as far away from him as I could.
Thanks great ideas - it seems like we'd all drive off or run away! my preferred option too - though on this 1 particular occasion there was only 1 entrance to the shop we had to visit - so my family and I put our heads as far down as possible and walked pass him. There was a comments wall in this shop - I had a sudden desire to write on this wall: "Men of roaming eyes are not welcome" lol:)
@ Amira - thanks for following:)
I'd really like to know the in-depth of how girls feel when this type of thing happens ?
salam sister,
Firstly, I must say you have a really cute blog! :)
I am going to add you to my blogroll! :)
Secondly, I would Glare at him (AKA the stiff look) then Glare at him (AKA the stiff look) then Mumble and grumble under your breath!
Assalamualaikum, sis..
You have such a wonderful blog, masya-Allah! I like it the moment I came visiting. :)
@SS - err, I'd have to think bout this :) But i seem to have lost some brain cells this holiday! Anyone wanna help?
@Muslimwife23 - Wasalaam! lol @ your suggestion - I truly feel like doing the same! and thank you for compliment and for adding me to your blogroll:) (I've also added your blog too ) :)
@ Mustika Sari Sayuti - Thank you for commenting and following! :) (ps- i'd really like to know what your name means?) :)
@ Ati - Wa'alaikumus Salaam, JazkAllah Khair for following (my 'followers' block has become full now - yay!)and i'm glad you like it.
To all - sorry for my late reply *apology*
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